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May 2011
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Ys [userpic]

I think I know what's bugging me.

If you get to know me, and you decide you don't like my opinions or my attitudes, and you tell me you don't want to be around me/know me/talk to me because of them, I'm fine with that.

If you accuse me of having opinions that I not only don't have, but find reprehensible, and then use that as a reason to blow me off, and then close all communication channels so there isn't even anything I can do about it, that really bugs me.

If you're someone I consider a friend, someone I've enjoyed talking to, and you top it off with "Oh, and all those conversations we had, all those times you said you believed in me and agreed with me and supported me...they were meaningless to me," it's gonna hurt.

Pardon me while I go off and hurt for a while.

I promise I'll try to stop being upset where anyone can see. I don't know that I'll succeed, but I'll try.

Current Mood: crushedcrushed
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*hugs*

I'm sorry you're hurting.

~`~Ivy~,~

{{{{{hugs}}}}}}

I don't know if it means much, but I've always enjoyed our conversational topics, even the more bizzare ones. Take care and have a huggie if you want one!

The only reason you should try not to be upset where others can see is if it causes you distress. There's a wonderful 10,000 Maniacs song called "Trouble Me". If you don't already know it, try and find it and listen to it. I care about you, and I want to try to help if you're hurting. If it gets to the point where I can't stand hearing any more I'll stop reading any entries to do with it for a while. I have never gotten to that point with any of my friends.

Take care if yourself. I know how awful it feels to have someone put words in your mouth/thoughts in your head. As far as I'm concerned, I'm in for the long haul. I may not read your TMI filter, but for something in which I may be able to help I'll definitely be around.

I've had this type of thing happen to me too, so I know how you feel.. And I know how bad it hurts.

All I can say is that you just need to take some time to yourself. Spend time with the people who are important to you "IRL." Remember that there are many people who still do care about you and that they understand what's going on and don't think bad of you.

It will still hurt, but over time it will slowly start to heal. Just try to take your mind off of it for a bit. Sometimes, that is the best thing.

Re:

Never change, never comprimse.

Anyone that doesnt like what you say but doesnt respect you enougth to just take that as your point of view and move on cannot be a freind.

I tend to find to tolerate anyone or thing you must first find where you differ and accept.

All your thoughts and feelings are you

I promise I'll try to stop being upset where anyone can see. I don't know that I'll succeed, but I'll try.

Don't. Just... be upset where you need to be. *hugs* There are people who care about you here.

*holds you tight*